I haven’t really had a chance to post anything about my dad. Well the good thing is, he is out of the coma and should make a full recovery…the bad thing is, it could take years. He knows everyone around him, he remembers the day before he went into the coma – but he’s missing like one week from his memory.
When he first came out of the coma he couldn’t talk or anything. We were stunned that he even opened his eyes since the doctor said he has pretty much no chance. I mean I always hear all the stories about “miracles” and all the bullshit, but I know hundreds if not thousands of people (not to mention 4-5 religions) were praying for him. I’ve never been very religious. I’m so skeptical about the whole thing. Anyways, The doctors were dumbfounded when they saw my dad with his eyes open, even more when he started to say a few words, now it’s been a little over a week since he opened his eyes and he can tell you exactly what he wants, when he wants it. He has a hard time moving his tongue around so it’s a little bit hard to understand him when he talks. Everyday he makes tremendous progress in his speech, swallowing, breathing and basic motor skills.
He seems to get aggravated with everyone he sees (especially if he knows them) he says to me: ” this is fucking bullshit, you piece of shit, you’re not helping me, I’m fucking hungry, why did you put me here?…” but I can deal with that…it’s better than lying there lifeless… he’ll get over it. I can’t feed him or give him and water because he can’t swallow. It’s an involuntary muscle that closes your trachea so food can go down the esophagus and into the stomach instead of the lungs. They feed him through an IV, but that doesn’t satisfy his appetite or thirst. He got a gastrostomy today which is a feeding tube in your stomach, but it’s only temporary. Hopefully next week, we will get him into a rehab close to the house.
I had really lost all hope, but thanks to everyone who prayed, a miracle brought my daddy from a “vegetated state” to “alive & kicking”